More on Men, Separation and their children
Its all really about my experience…..ordinary or special…
And I try to share it, at time I feel I am something special and have to remind myself that I am ordinary at other times that I am just plain ordinary and have to remind myself i am special, but as those of you who read this site a bit, I love that Fritz Perls “takes one to know one”, and I am beginning to recognise many things in myself, that I now see in you.
If you are in a relationship or about to start on a permanent one don’t mess it up, it really hurts. I through my own inability to understand and communicate (me huh…ME ….so it goes…but I am a special kind of communicator, and I, yes I got it wrong…think you are special, but you are ordinary).
So I am separated, I miss my children, every day, their noise their assertiveness, their presence, seeing them grow, I have become like a grandparent with access rights…so if you are discussing that separation/divorce or whatever now, think about this. I have been in a car accident, a motorcycle accident and fallen from a cliff, broken the odd bone and been bashed about the head a bit…I have had pneumonia, but nothing hurts as bad as saying goodbye to your kids, or keeping a room for them in your house which they are hardly ever in.
But now the ordinary event of parenting is turned to a special event, so all is turned on its tail again, my son hugs me like he never did before and I listen to my kids and am calmer and feel a better more confident parent. This new 21st century world we live in is bringing a new consciousness, wake up be special, wake up celebrate the ordinary….its what this site is all about, not about me but about you… we are all a special kind of ordinary.
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